Friday, February 28, 2014

single gray hair....


"Women may be the one group that grows more radical with age"

beautiful 

But Today morning, while combing my hair I found a single gray hair. Suddenly I was in a flashback & remembered when I started getting comments from friends and family like you look chubby, you look OLD. Even my friends started calling me Aunty. Usually I never mind these comments, but now it hurts me. I find it difficult to share it with anyone.

I have started avoiding my friends, just because I feel that I'm no more beautiful for them & I am not able to relate with them because they are far too young than me.

I was very beautiful and always appreciated by people. Even people appreciated me for my beauty not for my personality & achievements. Now I am concerned that now I will not appreciated by people anymore because I'm no longer beautiful & I have started feeling insecure about it.

“It's paradoxical that the idea of living a long life appeal to everyone, but the idea of getting old doesn't appeal to anyone.” 

This is the story of every woman in the middle of adulthood. In this phase of transition from middle of adulthood to late adulthood, each and every woman starts getting insecure about their looks, most importantly they become insecure about their relationships as well.

11 comments:

  1. You are always beautiful. I wont give up. :)

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    1. Hello Vijay you are so sweet that's why you saying this.but the thing is I'm sharing my view

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  2. it is easy to base our emotional well-being on the flattering comments one gets. but it isn't the best choice that we make. If you believe that you are beautiful, it won't matter what others think about that. :)

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    1. Enigma you are very true but I'm just sharing the thought of my current state of mind. I think every women face this situation.

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  3. thats what i am exactly facing/feeling right now!

    xx
    http://holdingajournal.blogspot.in/

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    1. Indigo I think every girl in her 30s can relate with this, and you are also one of us.

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